Besides suffering from the buried depression of what happened to me as a child, I also grew up in the Bronx New York. The violence that I was exposed to through out my teen years and early twenties no one should see and still haunts me to this day. When I finally made it out of the Bronx I was confused to how peaceful things actually should be. I was always on high alert anywhere I went just waiting for something bad to happen. The older I was getting the more of a problem it was becoming.
I had to figure out something. I was always against prescription medications because of all the possible side effects. I didn’t want to speak to anyone about my problems because my mentally at the time is that men keep their shit to themselves. So I got into drinking big mistake there. The combination between the alcohol, my inner rage and pain was not pretty for my family. I was a total embarrassment at family events, calling my wife and children horrible disgusting names. My wake up call to getting away from the poison of alcohol is when my then 16 year old son found me walking around the house naked punching walls. I knew the next day I was done with alcohol.
Still lost, I turned back to cannabis and started learning about 7 chakra meditation. It was amazing, instant gratification. I needed to learn more I was obsessed. I dove into anything I can find on all types of meditation tactics and immersed myself into the material. I kept reading warnings saying not to go to fast you can go pretty deep and open up some unpleasant things that are buried inside ourselves. That’s when I found Kundalini meditation. It was a whole new ballgame from there, feelings that I thought were tucked away forever came exploding out of me like a volcano. Now I was becoming more of a mess then I was before. I was clueless on what to do next.
I felt it was finally time to reach out for help and went to go see a doctor. Immediately they threw me on all these pills. Exactly what I was worried about happing, happened. I was getting all the side effects, all of that fast stuff they mumble at the end of the commercial or the fine print at the bottom. I was a zombie for about 6 months, I felt like I was on autopilot. I have no idea how I hung on and still performed well at work and finished 17th in a company filled with over 150 very talented salesmen. At home I barely spoke a word to my family and I felt like I had no soul. I was a zombie robot.
So like a idiot I decided to do the only thing I thought was the logical thing to do in my mind at the time and quit all the meds cold turkey. Let me tell you very bad move on my part. I highly recommend consulting a doctor before coming off any psych meds. The brain zaps I was experiencing were so painful, my thoughts spinning out of control, I was making mistakes at work that was costing the company thousands of dollars. Once again I had to do something. I don’t give up.
I decided to go get my medical marijuana card. Immediately the brain zaps went away but it still took about a good 10 months to a year before I felt the same again. About 2 months into having my medical marijuana card my boss called me into his office and wanted to address all the mistakes that were being made over the last few months. After trying to explain to him the battle I was up against he asked me if I was on drugs. He then put a styrofoam cup on his desk and asked me to piss in it. He got up and walked out of his office. I sat there in shock for a second then I got up followed him out and let him know that I had my medical marijuana card. He looked at me disgusted and asked do you think drugs help you? Once again I tried to explain my situation but it got me no where. I offered to go with him across the street to the urgent care and take a drug test the correct way, were it would be on file that I am a legal card holder. He refused and asked me to leave the store.
The next morning I went directly to see the owner and explained my situation. He sincerely listened and brought me on at the store he ran. I was still a mess from the withdrawal symptoms I was getting from all the psych meds I was on. I was moving a million miles per hour. All the mistakes I made at my previous store was popping up daily at my new store. I could not stay on top of it and I was sinking fast. Eventually a couple of months later they fired me.
I was devastated, I just lost my six figure a year job, my wife is a stay at home mother and I’m the soul provider. My head was spinning out of control. I feel into a deep depression. I ended up losing everything. My beautiful home, my two good family cars. Me, my wife, two kids and two dogs luckily had my mom and step dads house to go to. If it weren’t for cannabis at this point I don’t know if I would be around today writing this.
After a year of working six jobs making 85% less then what I was use to making I finally cracked. My blood pressure was through the roof and I ended up in the hospital. It took months of recovery and putting my family through hell just to achieve even a tiny amount of progress.
As of now through therapy, some pharmaceutical medicine, meditation and cannabis I am finally finding my way back into dealing with every day life. It is truly amazing the trauma you go through as a kid and how it can stay with you all these years and have a serious affect on your adult life.
My biggest problem now that I’m finally feeling good enough to work again is finding a good job. I’m more then qualified for a number of good paying positions. Unfortunately since it is a twisted society the majority of companies won’t hire me because I choose a natural plant to medicate. What I don’t understand is that it is perfectly normal for someone to go out after work with his or her coworkers and get shit faced drunk. Something is seriously wrong with that.
So I have decided to do whatever it takes to get into the medical cannabis field. Whether it’s starting off at a entry level position in a dispensary and working my way up, being a caregiver, or just being a advocate and spreading the thousands of positive stories on how this plant helps so many people including myself.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, I truly appreciate it. I will continue as much as I can to properly educate people on a wonderful healing plant.
Sincerely,
Tommy Acosta
A Medical Marijuana Patient